Another mirage of perception is that as you look to the centre of pain and destruction in the self it disappears. As you look away from it it comes back.

So perhaps keep the eye trained on it til it’s cleared up.



Those of you who caught the ‘manifestation’ bug from the Law of Attraction — and there are so many people that feel like ‘losers’ for being stuck and it not working for them — hear this.

It really seems to me to be full of holes the way it has been taught (to feel upbeat all the time, keep thinking of what you want, stay in the Love to achieve it). Wow. Feels exhausting that to me.

It also appears that the only ones making millions out of it are the ones teaching it. “I can teach you how to manifest what you want” Sure that sounds good, how much is it?!

Yet what % are not given what they want!!? As an old friend of mine used to say “Do you see a car drop into your driveway just through thinking of it?” No! 

So if manifestation works, and I am not saying it doesn’t, I am saying there is a whole load of complex layering that may be blocking it or disallowing it.

Here are some of my thoughts regarding it. These thoughts are just a work in progress at it were.

A. What you think you want may have been ingrained into you by society and advertising (a man to sweep you off your feet, a million pounds, 4 hot holidays a year, a diamond). These things may act as a temporary salve for something else. And that is great, by all means ‘get’ them and then see what happens 

B. If you go deeper and realise, actually I want a deep loving relationship, stability, etc things that would appear to be a little more fundamental and healthy, that is great BUT for what you WANT has a negative polarity as well. ie THAT WHICH YOU ARE RUNNING AWAY FROM.

Remember hope at its flipside is despair. 

So perhaps it is better to go inside and erase and heal ALL the stuff you are afraid of as a big part of this. As there is no point running at a million miles an hour keeping as busy as possible to avoid the whirring voice of despair within.

Once you erase and heal the stuff you DONT want (I have explained many techniques for how to do this) then you begin to realise that which you have been chasing IS you all along

You already ARE the Light and Love, abundance, Peace that you have been chasing. That which you look for on the outside is simply keeping you propped up by false structures that could be pulled away at any moment.

As ACIM says, “The course does not aim at teaching the meaning of love, for that is beyond what can be taught. It does aim, however, at removing the blocks to the awareness of love’s presence, which is your natural inheritance.”


When you have a deep, dark emotion you do not want to look at let alone feel, it is a wonderful opportunity to journey to the very depths and centre of it to realise THERE is your release. For at the very centre of it is pristeen peace and the Golden Light of who you truly are.

It takes courage, so do not forget as you take the journey that you ARE the Love and Light of the Divine then it will all be cleared quickly!


Published by Dan Sainsbury Transformational Psychology

Dan Sainsbury is a world-leading transformational psychologist and healer.

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