They say that we have 3 key programs running subconsciously in us, deeply-set programs that come from the earliest moments in our lives gradually being formed through childhood into young adulthood. These 3 key programs are:

  • The way we got on with our father.
  • The way we got on with our mother.
  • The way they got on with each other.

From that ‘household’ dynamic, we are osmotically acquiring our entire subconscious view of how the world works, what we expect from life, how we treat others, how we expect others to treat us, how much love we intrinsically feel we deserve, how we treat the opposite sex, how much we intuitively love ourselves and on and on.

A very large part of the neurological architecture with which we view, process and perceive the world is due in no small part to that first 15 or so years and to the average dynamic that took place en famille.

That is why, an integral part of any healing process should be to ENSURE that those 3 programs, those 3 relationships, are AS HEALED AS POSSIBLE WITHIN YOU. For they run WITHIN YOU, dictating a lot of how life is.

To the extent they are NOT healed is to the extent they are still dictating their terms, causing insecurities and other distortions in our relationships with ourself (self-esteem), with others, with work, with money, with health etc.

I have created a process that I use to heal ALL 3 PROGRAMS .. if you would like to know more please send an email to and I will send it you.

Published by Dan Sainsbury Transformational Psychology

Dan Sainsbury is a world-leading transformational psychologist and healer.

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