I know for myself, and I have seen it in many clients, that the difference between an unsatisfactory life and one that is bouyant and consistently excellent involves 3 things:
(i) healing and clearing ineffectual ‘junk’ programs that run in the subconscious mind that give rise to poor self-image and poor expectation in the different areas of life ~ namely, breaking free of the influence of our past and from the unhelpful ‘memes’ of society.
(ii) knowing exactly what you want and what your soul purpose is for being here and having the fearlessness to IMPLEMENT this.
(iii) knowing how to activate the superconscious mind ie the Higher Self or Divine Self. This is the ‘locale’ of the miracle layer as it is referred to in A Course In Miracles: ie. the ability to ‘access the miracle’ in any circumstance in order to bring forth the BEST CASE SCENARIO for all concerned and in doing so, dissolving all fear and limitation.
If you would like all 3 and are having particular issues in achieving them then let me know by emailing dansainsbury.healing@gmail.com
Dan Sainsbury Transformational Psychology 
How do you access your Life Purpose Dan? How do you KNOW what it is you’re meant to be doing here on Earth?