Relationship Optimisation


The 3 unconscious programs that produce the bulk of our perceptions, projections, expectations and fears in relationships are:

• the relationship we had with our mother
• ditto father
• the relationship they had together

To the degree they run rampant in the subconscious is to the degree they affect us to this day.

I was working with someone on this very subject last week, and the process I use brings to the surface the key memories that need to be excavated and healed.

Her mother was critical and anxious, her father domineering and had an “I know best” mentality. Their relationship had been heated and argumentative.

Once we healed all the key memories she felt light and unburdened by these imprints. Free to create and attract a relationship that she DOES want.

We then moved to the manifestation of the ideal relationship for her. This can only really be done once the clearing of the programs has been done.

The Vision of the ideal came easy to her. It felt blissful in her body. The hitherto de-programming meant no interference arose, clouding that vision.

De-program first, manifest second.

I’m excited to continue the manifestation with her next session.

If you want to run this process please enquire about sessions.

Published by Dan Sainsbury Transformational Psychology

Dan Sainsbury is a world-leading transformational psychologist and healer.

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