The Anatomy Of Perception

First, perception feels real. It is not. 10 people perceiving exactly the same event or thing will have a distinct way of looking at it and feeling about it, that is unique to them. Even if 2 of them are best friends. Perception is the constellation of your thoughts and feelings working together, and itContinue reading “The Anatomy Of Perception”

Manifestation Technique For Ideal Partner

A few of you have asked me how I do the emotional clearing and unconscious relational template repatterning work so that you can optimally manifest the right partner for you. Essentially, how do you remove all the unconscious saboteurs and phobias around love and then how do you MANIFEST “man•ifest or woman•ifest?” 😃 😉 theContinue reading “Manifestation Technique For Ideal Partner”

Law Of Attraction In Relationships

Just because you want something badly – doesn’t mean you will get it. In fact “wanting something badly” or desperately suggests the unconscious PAIN of not having. And that very energy will push away that which you most want. This all tends to stem from the pain of past loss that has not yet beenContinue reading “Law Of Attraction In Relationships”

Intimate Relationships WILL Trigger You: Good!

I was once in a relationship that was beautifully amazing for about 8 months – this extended honeymoon period of feeling amazing to be around each other. We would lay on the sofa in her flat and plan on which restaurants or bar we were going to that evening but instead just stay in, marinadingContinue reading “Intimate Relationships WILL Trigger You: Good!”

Emotional Intelligence Is An Oxymoron

Oxymoron n. A figure of speech that has a contradiction at its core. To be emotional is to be human, yet you cannot say that you are highly intelligent and brilliantly insightful in those moments of high emotionality. Emotions are the crashing waves, in fact, that obfuscate intelligence and insight. When you are in theContinue reading “Emotional Intelligence Is An Oxymoron”

A New Way To Look At Emotional Triggers

You’re stuck in traffic late for an important meeting. Everyone is hooting and there seem to be REALLY dithery drivers when the traffic finally starts to move. Your partner seems to disrespect you at a social event and even seems to be flirting with an attractive guest. Your boss overlooks you for some quality workContinue reading “A New Way To Look At Emotional Triggers”

How To Address “Over-Emotionality”

I was working with someone this morning who had been very emotional in her life. The smallest thing, even someone being kind to her – even her being kind to herself – would make her cry. Added to which she felt an overabundance of fear and anxiety toward life, toward the list of things sheContinue reading “How To Address “Over-Emotionality””

Your Beliefs Are Screwing You

Your beliefs are underwritten by your fears. Your beliefs are largely “dictatorial whispers” in that they are largely working away behind the scenes, outside of your consciousness. They are the silent screams that say “you can’t do that” “you don’t deserve this” “you’re not good enough for this”. Or “money is inherently bad”, “men onlyContinue reading “Your Beliefs Are Screwing You”

We Have Emotions All Wrong

“I’m so worried about this upcoming event”. 3 days later, “How did the event go?” “Oh fine actually”. “I feel so guilty about not spending time with him” “Have you asked him if he minds?” “No.” “I’m so angry at the way she spoke to me today” “How’s that working for you?”. “I woke upContinue reading “We Have Emotions All Wrong”


Everyone dreams of the perfect relationship. One that is forever joyous, emboldening and empowering. One that involves a deeply scintillating journey through life together. One that gives the deepest sense of passion, meaning and purpose. Yet very, very few have this. Why is that? Romantic and intimate Love are difficult because love by its natureContinue reading “FEELING S.A.F.E. IN LOVE”