When You Do A Healing For A Highly Skeptical NHS Psychotherapist


One of my first ever clients – quite pleasingly – was someone I already knew. A member of my chamber choir, someone who liked me and saw me somewhat as an older brother. One evening, after a rehearsal, in the pub, I asked how she was. She said, “Umm not good. I have really quiteContinue reading “When You Do A Healing For A Highly Skeptical NHS Psychotherapist”

ACCEPTANCE WHILST NOBLE MUST BE CARRIED OUT IN THE BODY NOT JUST THE MIND


Acceptance is not merely an intellectual concept but a FULLY PHYSICAL one. Acceptance is carried out and completed in the body, not only as a lofty notion. As long as forgiveness and acceptance are merely intellectual NOTIONS THEY DO NOT AND CANNOT FULLY WORK! Acceptance has been shown to be a KEY to transform theContinue reading “ACCEPTANCE WHILST NOBLE MUST BE CARRIED OUT IN THE BODY NOT JUST THE MIND”

The BSerie Of Fear


There are many ways to prove that the emotion of fear is essentially “BS” – or to put it slightly more elegantly, an elaborate smoke-and-mirrors act, all teeth and wild gnashing but in the end no actual bite. 1. It is a false-prophet How many times have you been afraid about an upcoming event e.g.Continue reading “The BSerie Of Fear”

Is It A Challenge Or A Golden Chalice?


Whenever I hear the word “challenge” I see “chalice”, that beautiful golden receptacle of healing and wisdom that contains the code that will unlock your ego to reveal the Divinity that You Are. But I have gone too far too early there; let’s rewind a little. Perhaps each challenge you have, whatever its size or shape, ISContinue reading “Is It A Challenge Or A Golden Chalice?”

The Fear And Pain Of Abandonment ~ The Greatest Wound Of All?


We have all had it and we have all been there: that moment we feel our loved one moving away from us. That immense love we have for them unmet and unrequited. Is there a pain like it? Or that moment where we begin to fall for someone and we feel somehow they are notContinue reading “The Fear And Pain Of Abandonment ~ The Greatest Wound Of All?”